How to Host a Swap

How to Host a Swap for Good Event: Your Complete Guide

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Hosting a clothing swap is as easy as inviting over some friends, and asking them to bring clothes and some cash to donate to your local domestic violence shelter.  It’s fun and easy, and helps a good cause.

Planning Your Clothing Swap

Let people know in advance that this is a fundraising event so that they bring cash or checks to chip in for the cause. If you have set a suggested donation amount or range, let them know how much it is.  Set an overall fundraising goal for the event beforehand, and invite enough people to meet the goal that you have set. Make sure to spread the word on Facebook as well!

How to Run the Swap Event

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There are two great methods for running a clothing swap, depending on the number of people and the amount of time you have.

BAZAAR SWAP

The first method is called the “bazaar swap.” Everyone spreads out their goods on the living room floor or tables and you have a fun free-for-all session. You can either do this as a trading event where people actually swap goods with each other, or you can have everyone donate their stuff to the piles and people just take whatever they want, first-come, first-serve, like a store where everything is free. Some hosts like to ask people to separate clothes into small, medium, and large sizes so that people can find things that fit more easily.

AUCTION SWAP

The second method is called the “auction swap,” and is a lot of fun if you have fewer than 20 people. Everyone seats themselves in the room and then each guest takes a turn getting up in front of the crowd and holding up their items one by one, like an auction, while giving a description of the item (“I have here a beautiful black cashmere sweater, size small…come on, I know one of you wants this!”).

If someone in the audience wants the item, they shout for it. If two or more people in the audience want the same item, and can’t work out who should have it, it goes into a special pile on the floor called “The pile of contention.” Later in the evening, after all the guests have auctioned off their clothes and everyone has some great new stuff, it’s time to revisit the “pile of contention.” At that point, if two people still both want the same thing, it is usually obvious which person has already snagged more great finds, and the item may no longer be contentious. If, however, both people still want it, you can have a “walk off” where each person tries on the item and makes a plea for why they need that article of clothing, and then the group votes on who should get it.

A few other tips

Regardless of which type of swap you host, one way to make sure the event is positive for everyone is to let people know before you start that the ground rule is that no one is allowed to say anything negative about their own body or anyone else’s body during the course of the swap.   If anyone starts complaining about something not fitting, people can shout “Ground rule!”

It’s also helpful to encourage people to bring accessories like scarves, shoes, jewelry, and purses in addition to clothes, so that your participants can all find something great that they love, regardless of the differences in size. Many hosts also invite their guests to bring books or household gadgets as well.

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